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498A women is

toxic.
cheater
a blackmailer and extortionist.
a killer of faith and humanity.
misuse laws. misuse section 498A (anti-dowry law) of IPC.
need sowry. Greed knows no gender, no relation.

25 reasons “Why IPC 498A is Anti-Social?”

  1. It is handled under the Criminal law for marriage related matters and not under Civil Laws.
  2. Non-bailable warrant does not require proof before arrest. No investigation necessary. This exposes the vulnerability of the accused taking away their basic human rights.
  3. Even those who were not part of the ‘day-to-day’ family life could be named and arrested on one complaint, which can also include pregnant women and children.
  4. Accused is presumed guilty until proven innocent. Violates the basic principles of natural justice as laid down by Amnesty International.
  5. Gifts are sometimes misunderstood as dowry. Who decides that the gift exchanged were ‘gifts or dowry’?
  6. It is non-compoundable which means that the complaint can’t be taken back once registered. This hinders any scope of reconciliation between the couple.
  7. After a man is accused of 498A, he will be not be in a position to take her back as the accused and petitioner cannot influence each other in a criminal case. Moreover it will lead to severe breach of trust and chances of reconciliation becomes extremely weak.
  8. Old parents who lived with dignity and respect have to live with the stigma of the allegation of harassing their daughter-in-law for the rest of their lives.
  9. Groom’s relatives don’t find a suitable bride after they are accused under 498A
  10. Most of the cases are filed because the husband refuses to throw his parents out of the house at the wife’s demands.
  11. Husband’s job is at risk when he is accused under 498A who could even be the only breadwinner of the family.
  12. The health of the old parents dangerously deteriorates after they are arrested in a 498A case.
  13. Some even commit suicide for not able to withstand the depression and frustration of been falsely accused.
  14. Faith in marriage dwindles to such an extent for the accused family that they refrain from tying the knot again.
  15. In most of the cases the family ends up paying a very high price to settle the case, the money that was saved for the parent’s health.
  16. Most often the lawyers tend to take the family for a ride to extract as much money as possible.
  17. The possibility of a woman over-reacting on a trivial matter in the family is never considered as a reason of complaint.
  18. A woman tries to get divorce proceedings faster by filing a 498a case even if no dowry was demanded.
  19. The witnesses (neighbors) tend to support the woman for not getting into a police case. They even fear of been accused by the woman if they don’t support the woman.
  20. Some women marries an NRI and slaps a 498A case only to extort large sum of money
  21. Even after knowing that the complaint can be false, police tend to support the woman and asks the man to settle the case with a financial compensation.
  22. The case can easily linger in the court for years and only the groom’s family has to pay the price.
  23. 498A case can be filed even after the divorce, which only means that the accuser wants to demand money legally apart from maintenance.
  24. There is no prohibition clause in the 498A law that would stop women to misuse it.
  25. It is nearly impossible to file a case of defamation on the accuser because the police will not register the case and it would be hard to prove it.

Note :The existence of dowry deaths in the rural areas is not the reason for lenient laws as understood by women organizations. The law is already unfair, biased and inapplicable. The true reason for dowry deaths in rural areas is poverty and under-developed civilization. Dowry deaths still flourishing in the rural areas and misuse of 498a law is flourishing in the urban areas. Unwillingness of the women’s organization to alter the law so that misuse of law can be stopped is evident. On the contrary, women organizations are planning to strengthen and increase the severity of the 498a law to curb dowry death, which is absolutely preposterous. One must not forget that the chunk of the GDP comes from the urban cities where these laws are prevalently misused. If the misuse of laws still continues then the social infrastructure will collapse which will have a direct unfavorable impact on the country’s economy. If the law can’t curb dowry deaths, can’t even stop misuse, then what is the use of such a law that causes millions of people to suffer?

http://feministmedia.wordpress.com/2008/02/16/social-ostracism-of-498a-women-and-their-pimp-families/

All she does is Bitching

You have grudge against me. So where was the need to implicate my relatives?
If I resolve to pardon you, is it necessary that my implicated relations will pardon you?
You attribute the family breaking behaviour to me, you are still unrepentful of your adulterous life.
You conquered my inherent weaknesses ruled for 7.5 years and ruined me, You never can imagine my strengths.
You removed the rights of my kid to access me. You fed her mind with poison for so long time.
Where on earth and heaven Will any GOD excuse you for your guilt!
You bitch, If you are born from semen of only one man(not necessarily your father), accept your wrong-doing and take responsibility for assasinating the child-hood of my daughter.
You bitch and your clan, I show you “THIS”

show finger at you

show finger at you

498A for Dummies

WHAT’S THE use of being empowered, if you are unable to cause harassment, pain and suffering to the husband and his family to the point of suicide? If this is your objective, IPC section 498A can come in handy for you. This not only makes sure that you cause trauma, harassment and pain to your husband’s family, but also you get paid in full for it in due course. So gear up women, here is a crash course in 498A.

Here is the modus operandi of a false 498A. It’s actually easier than ordering a pizza and will cause assured harassment for the husband’s family…

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